Love Potions- Be Inviting, Confident for Deeper Connections!

Do you ever wonder if there is a way for you to be more open, confident, inviting and trusting, so that you will be able to find love and have deeper connections? Sometimes, it’s easy to blame outer-influences for why you haven’t found love, or why you can’t have a serious relationship. Though if you look within, in most cases, it is due to your beliefs that has blocked any chance of having a serious romantic relationship.

It can be really hard to connect with others if you believe things like: you’re not good enough, not skinny enough, not pretty enough. not smart enough, broken, rejection, undeserving of happiness, all men/women are bad, no relationship can last forever, untrusting, have nothing to give, insecure, love hurts, all the good ones are gone, etc, etc. With thoughts like these, you will sub-consciously sabotage any hope for a real relationship.

Now, first things first, let look at your parents/guardians relationship with each other. Generally, if we have a good role model, it would be easier for us to believe in love and everlasting relationships. However, if all you’ve seen growing up, are broken and hurtful relationships, that is where fear tends to rear it’s ugly head where love is concerned. Doubt, mistrust and jealousy can be second nature when it comes to romantic relationships.

Secondly, reflect on your relationships during your youthful years and think back on what those were like. If someone hurt you in some way, then you’ll feel the need to protect yourself further by closing yourself and not allowing yourself to ever feel vulnerable again. Closing yourself off is a sure way for a relationship to fail, even if you’ve found “the one”.

Releasing Past Hurts

Acknowledge the past and imagine it gone! Let it go, and never complain about it again. All our past baggages has made us a stronger person, if only we learn from it. We are adults now, and are now responsible for our actions and reactions. There’s no use crying over spilt milk anymore. Cry, let it all out, embrace it, and then own it! When, and only when, you let it go, will it never hurt you again. If you keep burying your feelings, it will resurface, again and again, for the rest of your life! If you need assistance with this, you can book me in for some energy healing sessions.
Work on building your self-love! When you truly love and appreciate yourself, you will then be able to receive love and appreciation from others. Your partner will treat you better, based on the reflection of the way you treat yourself. This will give you true confidence, without the fluff! The more self-love you have, the less someone is able to hurt you, and the more inviting you will be.
Diffuse oils and apply oils daily! Diffusing oils at home and on the go, will help give you the extra support to release negative thought patterns and re-condition your thoughts. As the oils enter your olfactory system (nose), it will be instantly released into the brain to provide chemical balance and healing. Apply oils 3-4 times over the heart, back of your neck and any other area you choose. You can choose to layer these oils on, or you can pick 3-4 oils and make a blend, then fill the rest with fractionated coconut oil.
Say Positive Affirmations about Love- The more positive you are about love and relationships, the more opportunities you will meet! Then your subconscious won’t self-sabotage your relationships anymore.

Love Potion Oils

ROSE- The Oil of Divine Love. It holds a higher vibration than any other oil on the planet and a powerful healer of the heart. Emotionally, it helps you feel unconditional love and acceptance, open, free-flowing, receiving, tenderhearted and accepted. It can help relieve you from constricted feelings, closed or broken hearted, lack of compassion and wounded.
MAGNOLIA- Is opening, resplendent and heavenly. Magnolia helps improve the lack of ability to receive love, and the weak heart chakra. It is also perfect for feelings of emotional and hormonal imbalances, low libido, anger, irritability, panic, worried, uptight, tense, anxiety and depressed.
GERANIUM- The Oil of Love & Trust. Geranium restores confidence in the innate goodness of others and in the world. It helps you build trust, when you may have lost trust in others due to difficult life circumstances. It helps encourage emotional honesty, love, forgiveness, trust, tolerance and openness. Thus, releasing the feelings of abandonment, loss, distrust, unforgiving, unloving, heavy-hearted, loss and grieving.
MARJORAM- The Oil of Connection. Marjoram helps those who are unable to trust others or form meaningful relationship. This inability to trust often stems from harsh life experiences and will tend to fear a close connection in relationships. It can help reduce the need to protect themselves, be aloof, distancing themselves, being cold, distrusting, emotionally isolated, reclusive, fearing rejection and self sabotaging. So that you can be emotionally open and connected, have close relationships, softhearted, loving and trusting.
NEROLI- The Oil of Shared Purpose & Partnership. Neroli is unifying and particularly helpful for calming troubled hearts in relationship conflict. It promotes harmony in long-term relationships. On-going partnerships require acceptance and growth, so Neroli invites you to develop traits of fidelity, empathy, patience, forgiveness, tolerance, perseverance and resilience. Releasing the feelings of conflicting, bitterness, frustration, unsympathetic, disloyal, impatient, sexual inhibition and blaming.
JASMINE- The Oil of Sexual Purity and Balance. Jasmine nurtures healthy sexuality and encourages release of past sexual trauma. Jasmine helps you let go of unresolved sexual experiences to allow healing. It can also assist those who fear, repel or resist the sexual experience, as well as those obsessed or fixated on sex. It promotes healing, self-acceptance, intimacy, safe and trust.
SMART & SASSY- The Oil of Inner Beauty. This Metabolic Blend can support you in releasing the heavy emotions which contribute to the physical and emotional pounds. Encouraging you to find feelings of self-worth, self-acceptance, confident and embracing the body’s individual beauty. Releasing the need for self-criticism, feelings of worthlessness, disgust or hate for appearance, self-judgement, body shame and unattractiveness.
BERGAMOT- The Oil of Self-Acceptance. Bergamot invites you to see life with more optimism, self-acceptance, confidence, hopeful, lovable and good enough. Releasing negative core beliefs of being bad, unlovable, not good enough, hiding behind a mask of cheerfulness, despairing, low self-esteem and self-judgement.